Astounding invitation.

Salam.

It is known that to let loose your distress over a drinking session has long been part of Korean social mores. However, I’ve never thought in all my life, especially today, of being invited by an adult student to go share a serving with her. But don’t get us wrong. She didn’t realize the fact that we don’t share the culture. She politely asked me if I’m amongst those who drink. Maintaining the courtesy, I told her, “I’m sorry but I don’t drink.” She understood and apologized straightaway.

Previously, she had told me about her problem and was thinking to talk it over with me. I was touched by seeing how she had gradually been so restful while with me.

There are things that we couldn’t do together. But humanely, understanding each other’s agony and act accordingly is more than enough whilst no drinks included.

In the future, let’s keep this bond alive though we speak differently.

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