I’m up to…

Salam. Hello!

I’m back with a shocking news! I’ve opened a new blogspot account! Please feel free to go visit my new best-friend at – http://high-on-lattes.blogspot.com/

It’s nothing big. But it’s something new that I’ve been dying to try to (ha-ha). Not that I have any intention to deceive ‘The Best Just Got Better’. In fact, he just got a new little brother! Yeah, let’s just leave it that way. Ha-ha.

I’ve had so much fun today hanging out with Jackie and Assem (I don’t really know how to spell her name right though…). We have been planning on climbing the famous Broga Hill the day after tomorrow. IT sounds fun. It’s actually on Alan’s (another friend of theirs’) invitation. So I’m just gonna tag along. It’s not like I have to pay for anything though. Just planning to have fun for the week

So, what are you guys up to? Oh yeah! I might have the Streamyx installed within this week (yay!). So you guys are gonna see me online 24/7 starting next week! Hoyeh!

Last week was pretty fun too. I attended my friend’s engagement party (can I call it ‘party’?) with a bunch of close friends. We were welcomed by non-stop camera’s shuttering sound. Somehow it felt like going through a grammy’s red carpet session! (hahahaha!) We had our picture taken for several minutes, and amongst those taken there was one shot that has come to my liking.

Tadaaa!

It's mine!

It was my first time captured in such pose! =P Pretty embarrassing too!

But anyway, it was all thanks to the talented-mr-photographer and his assistant on that day who made all the pictures look awesome!

And also, congratulations to Kdee & Razi on your engagement! I’m really looking forward to attend your wedding day. Be sure to look pretty and gorgeous too, like you always do

Astounding invitation.

Salam.

It is known that to let loose your distress over a drinking session has long been part of Korean social mores. However, I’ve never thought in all my life, especially today, of being invited by an adult student to go share a serving with her. But don’t get us wrong. She didn’t realize the fact that we don’t share the culture. She politely asked me if I’m amongst those who drink. Maintaining the courtesy, I told her, “I’m sorry but I don’t drink.” She understood and apologized straightaway.

Previously, she had told me about her problem and was thinking to talk it over with me. I was touched by seeing how she had gradually been so restful while with me.

There are things that we couldn’t do together. But humanely, understanding each other’s agony and act accordingly is more than enough whilst no drinks included.

In the future, let’s keep this bond alive though we speak differently.

It’s just trivial.

Salam.

Recently, there were issues about relationship yang affect my mind tremendously. Call me freak but I did actually foresee this thing to happen. Ha-ha (o-kay…that sounds real freaky..). They were all about wrong things going round the clock. I’m not to specify what’s what here, but rather I really wish for the best to overcome all.

Previously (it’s more like few hours ago..), I met up with some good friends. The kind of friends from amongst those I trust the most. The kind of friends where we could freely talk about almost anything. The kind of friends those wouldn’t give you headache for nothing. The kind of friend…(O-kay! O-kay! We got it already! So just get to the point silly!). Ha-ha. O-kay. Basically we would meet up to talk about weather (kidding!). To talk about what is up to the day. And so this one friend ask me about something trivial (I guess..) in a relationship. It’s about the present partner got haunted by the other’s past (..got what I mean?). Ye-ah. It’s something like your other half is holding onto some unnecessary memories of his or her past relationship or liking. It’s sort of like that.

So the question was; should this friend get upset or not? (what??).

Even from before I’ve had this fix answer on the matter concerned. It’s something like the same answer you would find in the scheme of a-decade-due-exam-question. But looking at that real bewildered expression, I’ve got no choice but to convince her how things really work in a pre-life-long-relationship (this is because I was reminded to never give advice on relationship matter though).

She told me about how this guy holds several pictures of his girl (ex-interest item?) from before. Things really go around in circle don’t they?

The answer is actually pretty simple. Take it like this; we know that A.L.M.O.S.T each one of us had fall in love more than once before we actually make a stop with the VERY ONE, right? So, we must have this thing called memories from those previous in-love days. And (dramatically), some of us haven’t really let go of the feeling, or at least the tiniest bit of humanely sense of knowing pretty-someone in the past (now..now..don’t point finger to each other).  When I said ‘some of us‘; it could be YOU as well. Hence, it would be pretty screw-you to get upset about this thing (which I call it ‘little-spice’) right? What’s more, this would lead to series of couple’s-favorite let’s-give-our-love-some-breaks. That would be suck!

It’s not only them have to deal with it, YOU could have been in this situation as well (even ME). If this case does not concern you, well try to define exactly why were you in love with this particular gorgeous-someone in the first place. You might want to give the other half time to learn letting-go of his or her past and try your best to cherish the present (while you’re still part of it). You’re not even married yet you’re troubled by this trivial matter. Having to deal it after the knot-tying celebration, that’s a total different problem (you might want to start think seriously about it).

The point here is; start questioning your partner on this matter, you will quickly find yourself on the verge of another breaking-up situation. Period.

I’m not saying I will always be cool about this nor I will never find myself in such case. Just keep on reminding one another, shall we?

Sick loves me this week.

Salam.

Right from here onwards I would love to first greet by giving you my ‘salam’

It was not a good week for me to talk about. All I was doing was to get attacked by this monstrous fever for which I wish not to get hooked on again anymore. I was able to hold it for only two days and it was a wicked blow on me for the next 2. I couldn’t attend to work for two days in a row and been stranded at a good friend’s place for 3 days.

Words of helping hands kept coming in offering their kindness to watch over me while being sick. I was so thankful to get to know these people. Though I was dying to accept all those kind hearts, I chose to crash at this friend’s house. I don’t like to be a burden to anyone, but you see, after what I’ve been through, I’d rather not to stay alone in my worst condition. In this case, (sorry chingu!) to throw my-sick-self in a house with a fine set of family present would not make it on the list. A loving and tender care would only cause my heart to betray their aim to treat me to recovery. I’d be more spoilt and hard to get on. So, instead of being sick in more than it should have, I tried to shove these germs away by taking up pills and gallons of waters. Seems like it works. I feel much better after several of collapsing hours. But yeah, I’m going to dismiss a.s.a.p tomorrow morning. Been too long away from own home doesn’t sound too good if that reaches Mom.

I’m sure to be all energetic again tomorrow. Well, to dear lovely friends, thank you for all your kindness up until now.

p/s: I’ll make up to you guys later for this!

Back-Once-Again

안녕하세요!

I’m back! That’s all. Thank you.

See you guys in next entry (which might be….in few months days ahead…hehe)

p/s: I’ve changed my blog layout! It’s cool isn’t it? Yeah..